ABCs, 123s, iPhone 14s

I am first generation. Both of my parents migrated to America in their late teens with close to nothing. Growing up, we didn't have much but we always had enough, which included a boxy tv and a purple home phone. 

Now that I have kids of my own, their upbringing looks much different. We have a tv in every room, the girls have phones that they play on, and they have tablets. My 8 year old daughter just asked me for a laptop for Christmas so she can practice typing. 

I believe that technology does help children learn how to make decisions and problem solve. Educational games have helped my kids flourish in ways that are fun instead of mundane. With appropriate boundaries, I believe children can benefit in ways that were not available to many of us when we were younger. 

However - I also believe in limits. Screen time is only for a set amount of time and all phones are put away an hour before bed time. In-person socialization is very important so my kids will go outside every day to play with the neighbor kids. We also have days where we just don't use any technology at all. Camping is huge in my family and it's a nice way to unplug and recenter ourselves. 

Technology is a tool. When used correctly, it can help us learn and grow. But if we abuse it, it can ultimately be our downfall. Creating healthy habits for my kids has taught them how to balance both being a kid, as well as how to navigate through our digital world.